At some point in most adult relationships that last longer than six months, someone raises the question - why don’t we move in together? After all, let me guess, you spend nearly every night together anyway, right?

There is no single “right” answer for every couple - or even each person in a couple. Here are a few things to think about before making the plunge.

Saving Money. It makes sense - you spend all of your time at one person’s apartment and the other is sitting empty. Why pay for two places? In my opinion, this is probably not the best reason to move in together. Sure, it can be difficult to ignore in pressing economic times, but this probably shouldn’t be the driving force behind moving in together. Try to keep the focus on what is best for your relationship, not your wallet.

Longevity. Consider how long you’ve been together. If it has been a couple of years and you think you are headed to the alter with this individual, then maybe moving in together is the next logical step. If, on the other hand, your relationship consists of a head-over-heels month or two, maybe you should step back and let the relationship develop before you add the roommate relationship to the mix.

Goals. Even though it may not be a fun discussion, you and your significant other should have “the talk.” What do you each want to get out of living together, and where do you see it going? There is no right or wrong answer - the point is that each person be aware of the other’s views and share a common goal. If you see living together as the step right before becoming engaged but your boyfriend has no intention of ever getting married, find that out before you sign a lease. If you can’t or won’t have the discussion, that alone might tell you something.

Plan Ahead. Remember, even though your relationship may be blissful, rent still needs to be paid and bathrooms still need to be cleaned. Are you ready to share these fiscal responsibilities and mundane tasks with your mate? After all, watching your partner plunge the toilet can take away from the mystique.

Roommate Material? Finally, romance aside, is this someone you want to live with? If you were picking a roommate, would this woman be on your list? Because, if things don’t work out, you will still be roommates with lease commitments - at least for a while.

Of course, deciding to move in with your boyfriend or girlfriend can be a big step. So, consider the options and balance the pros and cons. In the end, it’s not permanent - though it could feel like it.