Got a new roommate? Whether your roommate is your closest friend, your significant other, or a random stranger you found on Craigslist, having them as a roommate comes with its own set of challenges and difficulties. Sometimes the best way to overcome these hurdles is to be upfront. Here is a list of things to tell your new roommate right off the bat to start your roommate relationship off right!
1. Tell them what furniture/appliances you have and find out what theyhave
Before moving in, go over a list of things you already own that you can bring to the new apartment. My first apartment had three microwaves that we had to make room for. Really, who needs to make that much toast? Maybe your new roommate has a great set of speakers or brand new television that you don’t know about. Find out so that you can save yourself from making a redundant or expensive purchase.
2. How you want to divide up chores
No one likes a messy roommate. Tell them from the beginning how you both can keep the apartment clean. Maybe they take out the garbage one week and you take it out the next. Set these rules up early to avoid dirty dishes (and your resentments) from piling up.
3. Let them know your schedule
This includes your sleep schedule. No one wants a roommate who throws a raging party on a Tuesday night when you have to work the next day at 8am. Letting them know your schedule can help you avoid having to confront them later.
4. What you want to do about bills/utilities/rent
Whose name should the utilities be in? How are you going to divide up the bills? Who is going to make sure the rent is sent on time? These are all questions you and your new roommate should go over before moving in together. Try paying rent online to make it even easier.
5. Any allergies or medical conditions you have
I had a roommate who watched a friend’s cat for a month. And I’m allergic to cats. Luckily it’s not a bad allergy and with the help of some Claritin I was able to cope but sometimes a pet can be a deal breaker. Tell your new roommate beforehand about any allergies or medical conditions you have so that they are aware and can plan accordingly. Have a peanut allergy? Tell them. That way they won’t cook you a meal with peanuts and accidentally send you to the emergency room.
6. That you’ll be a respectful roommate
Any good relationship is one that is built on mutual levels of respect. Start off by telling your new roommate that you plan on being a respectful and considerate roommate and follow through with this. I promise they’ll be more likely to show you the same amount of respect.
