When the time comes for a young family to move, it can be a traumatic event for young kids. You’ll want to be in tune with their feelings, stay positive, and give them things to look forward to once the move is complete. Follow the ten steps below, so your kids will have a positive outlook and a move to look forward to.
Is It the Right Time?
Kids can become attached, act emotional, and just don’t like change. If there has been a life-changing event-like a divorce or a recent death-in the family, you need to weigh the pros and cons of a move. Talk with your kids and observe their behavior, in order to make the right decision.
Involve Your Kids in the Moving Discussions
When you make an important family decision, it’s best to involve your kids. Whether their opinion holds weight in the conversation or not, you’ll want them to feel like their opinion matters. Including them in the decision-making process can ease their nerves and get them excited for the transition.
Have the Kids Pack Their Toys
While teens might not want anything to do with the packing, little kids get a sense of pride when they can be like their mom and dad. There are plenty of fragile items you won’t want your kids to touch, but put them to work packing their toys. That way, moving is fun for your kids, but it helps get the job done.
Let the Kids Decorate Their Rooms
Give your kids something to look forward to, like decorating their new bedroom. Take them to the store, so they can pick out colors and even get new bedspreads. Who cares if one insists on a neon green room, this way there is something for them to take ownership of in the new home.
Maintain a Positive Attitude
There’s no doubt that moving is stressful, but don’t let your kids see your stress and frustration. Stay positive because your kids look up to you. When there’s uncertainty in their life, the slightest bit of bad energy can make their move a traumatic experience.
Find a Play Date on Moving Day
If your kids aren’t at an age where they can help with loading the truck, find ways to keep them occupied during your moving day whether it’s with a babysitter or playing with friends. It might be best to plan an activity away from your home, so you can keep their emotions in check during the move.
Picking a School
Today there are plenty of schooling options for your kids, so make sure you find the right fit. Set up an appointment with potential schools so that your kids can take a tour and meet with their would-be teachers. Observe their interactions and involve them in any final decision.
Plan a Fun Adventure
After you get settled into your home, take your kids out to celebrate. Plan a fun family activity. This is also a great time to let them know what other fun places are around. This way they can see there are plenty of entertaining things to look forward to in their new town.
Meet the Neighbors
As you’re meeting your new neighbors, find out which ones have kids and what their ages are. Doing so allows your kids to meet someone, close in age, before you even get settled in. Just knowing there are kids in the neighborhood will help ease your kids’ nerves.
Get the Kids Active in Sports or Clubs
Signing your kids up for a club or a sport allows your kids to make friendships with kids that have similar personalities and the same interests; as opposed to being friends with a neighbor just because they live two doors down.
It’s important for your move to be a pleasant experience for you and your kids. Keep them informed and involved. It’s a new chapter in their lives as well so give them a reason to be excited. Remember a happy kid means happy parents.
This article was written by the folks at Movearoo.com, your #1 resource for transferring home services, moving guides, and expert advice. Visit their resources page for more tips and tricks on moving.
